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FIRST AND FOREMOST it is important to Understand and Respect that a BDSM Play Party
IS NOT A FREE FOR ALL SEX ORGY
There are some very specific overall accepted Protocols for safe, sane and consensual BDSM Play within a Public Dungeon. Some of these are related to general safety while others relate more specifically to personal space and respect for others. All however effect the overall enjoyment for everyone.
When visiting a public Dungeon or a sponsored play party find out who the Dungeon Master is.
The Dungeon Master over any dungeon or play party has the final word and responsibility for what goes on at any given party. They are to be obeyed.
One should be attentive to their personal hygiene at home before arriving at a play party.
Discover what forms of play are permissible at any one particular Dungeon or Play Party prior to arrival.
Inquire if there are any specific rules or protocols required by any Public Dungeon or sponsored play party.
When observing any play scene ALWAYS do so from a safe and respectful distance as to not interfere or distract those playing.
Never interrupt or enter a place scene without being invited in by the Dom in control of the scene. This includes otherwise socially acceptable interruptions such as greetings or goodbyes. Such an otherwise simple gesture could indeed cause injury during a play scene. Folks that play understand these things and would not think ill of you for not greeting them or wishing them well as you leave when they are involved in a scene.
Never touch any person without permission particularly someone you do not know.
Do not borrow anyone else's toys including people without permission.
Always clean up the play space you have been playing in when you are finished. Wipe down any dungeon furniture you may have used with a disinfectant wipe which are usually supplied within any Public Dungeon.
Be mindful that there may be others waiting to use the play space you are using and do not monopolize that space all evening. Everyone should have equal opportunity to play.
Keep social conversations or scene negotiations out or hearing range of those playing. Many Dungeons offer conversation areas for these purposes. Use them.
Advise the Dungeon Master of any injuries.
Advise the Dungeon Master of any Dungeon equipment that is not functioning properly or if by some accident something has been damaged while playing. Not sharing that information could mean someone could get injured.
ULTIMATELY HAVE FUN AND ENJOY YOURSELF WHILE RESPECTING OTHERS
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